This could trace back to your courtship. This is a rather controversial subject when you want to find friends on hook up apps. Usually, according to the way people usually court for love, guys usually pay during the date, especially at the beginning of a relationship. If a girl insists on paying, she would be deemed as a feminist. Once my friend posted a poll on Facebook asking about people’s opinion on who should pay during a tinder hookup. Surprisingly, many men think that they are actually more than willing to pay during a date, but they certainly don’t mind if the girl insists on paying for the half of it. But they wouldn’t want a girl to pay for the whole dinner. She also said that once she went on a date, when it was the check time, her date didn’t stop her from paying for a half of the bill. From my own experience, it is very considerate if you want to pay for half, but that’s enough. You certainly don’t need to pay for your date. It is not the time for you to show your generosity. On the contrary, some men might be intimidated by your behavior. Therefore, the next time you went on a date, you can offer to pay for half, but if you don’t want to, that is absolutely okay. Just remember to say thank you.
Being totally controlled by your emotions
This could also go back to your courtships. This is really a major game in a relationship. So, how are you going to deal with it. No one would want to date an emotional bomb, even for just one night hookup. Never show all your cards right away. This is the secret to win. I know you are very eager to be completely open to your boyfriend. It is okay to always keep an eye on your emotions and feelings, but never reveal too much of it, because it would also reveal your insecurity. Try to stay calm no matter what happens. If you give yourself away too far, you are likely to leave an impression of needy and desperate. That is not cute at all. You need more control of yourself and your emotions. That is a very attractive character. More importantly, letting your emotion take control of yourself could end up with an broken heart. Therefore, put away those sad feelings and when everything is mature, let them out.
Giving up easily
You might be wondering, it has been a few days, but I still didn’t hear him back. He seems not interested. Maybe I should just give up. Not yet! It is vital to be a decent lady. But that does not mean you should give up easily. This means on the one hand, you should be persistent if he shows little interest in you. On the other hand, you shouldn’t give in when it is obvious that he should try harder to win you over. You know, if there is free milk, no one would buy a cow.